Today is a school classmates getting married. I admit I once not closed with her in fact, I just hate the school and all the people in and around it after I been transfered there. I am not a bad girl who got kicked out from school and has to go to other school but I am a girl which has no place to further to Form 4 because the darn school only provides education until Form 3. (yes, very kasian, I know).
This girl (the bride) is a smart person. Good handwriting, wear braises on her teeth, super skinny, has a loving generous father and a like-to-act cute younger sister. I was thinking.. If I don't make my move to make some friends, I think it's hard to survive for another 2 years there. So, I started to stick myself to her, dig where she went for tuition and all. LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL yes, evil method. Parasites? Yup, that is the time where I learnt to be a parasite.
And that's how we got a long well, and today she got married to a guy which we all study in the same classroom. I have no idea (nobody did actually) how she got hook up with him and how he ended up with her! We (as classmates) didn't even notice a single sign of they both are interested of each other LOLLLLL (ok they are secretive then).
One day, she Pm-ed me at Facebook saying she got married on the 24th December but the dinner will be on the 30th December.
On the 24th, bridesmaids, need to be at bride's house at least 6am in the morning she said. We reach early there , before 6am with my Bear friend. Nobody there, only 2 uncles, a photographer, bride's dad and a makeup artist. Her makeup almost done already that time. It's hot inside her house. Brick house with no air-conditioned and windows are closed. =_=" so .. it's not as what we both expect. Alright then, the bride starting to brief about the games which will be serve to the groom's brothers. Usually, the bridesmaids need to figure out the games.. but this one is another way round. Fine, nvm, we just follow then.
After briefing, bride suddenly said, the money she need to bring to groom house is not ready. =_=" she want it to be decorate in a love shape and all.. still left few pieces not yet stick on the red manila card. So...my Bear friend helped. Okay done. Then the bride asked me to go hang the bunch of grapes for the groom to eat. =_=" alright. I found the grapes and .. a plastic pipe.
Seriously there isn't any place to hang such thing at her house. When the bride's brother in law came, he helped to hang the grape by throwing a rope, way across the electricity wire in front of the bride house and hang the grape there. He said it won't electrocute anybody because it's nylon rope =_=.
Oh well, he dare to guaranteed and I have no idea how to hang it so, I just go with his idea.
Then, my Bear friend went to the kitchen to see what's the bride's father doing.. the tea ceremony thingy is no where to be seen. The bride's father is making some tea.. and it's normal chinese tea. LOL. Well, I personally thought it is normal chinese tea to be used but the bear friend say need to put red dates inside to make it sweet tea. Need to be sweet.!! Wahahaha okay, it has the meaning actually... sweet life and all.
Luckily , the Bear friend found a packet of red dates in the fridge, so there goes the tea, done.
After that, since the bride's mother passed away last year, so need to "serve tea" for her too. Bear friend help to put the table in front of her photo lo. Making a temporary altar.
All these in process, people starting to come, other bridemaids I mean. But bride's relative from her mum side is no where to be seen... zzz they should come and help cuz bride mum no more ... selfish.
Bride totally give out her best to do and buy those necessary things needed in order to follow the chinese traditions. Her aunts from her mum side can only call and advise.. they seriously need to lend out a hand and help. It's weird when the bride have to do everything herself. as if she's an orphan LOLLLLLLLL WHY?!!! Erghhhhh.....
Luckily got the Bear friend around.. she's expert and more experience in this. She will get good karma a lot a lot for all the work she contribute today. =)
I cannot help much because myself isn't so pro.. I already plan how is it going to be when I got married. Totally going to be different from what I see today and on last 2nd Dec .
For the brothers gang.. mostly are familiar faces from school. They have prepared themselves for the worst game ever but the game ended up like ... sukaneka tadika. Eat grape, blow rice flour, dance with balls clip in between and drink coke LOL.. Gentle huh? Yup, they are very lucky indeed. As for the last wedding I attend on the 2nd Dec, brothers are not prepared for any of games cuz they thought fetching bride from Hotel, so there won't be any games.. end up having small gas brother, brother hiding behind curtain and etc.
Alright, back to the today's event. After the groom got into bride's room. He put ring to the bride's finger and kiss her cheeks.. bride dad bring her downstairs for tea serving ceremony... and yes, the bride's dad cried so so so badly.. tears flowing like leaking pipe.. I wanted to cry as well but I look elsewhere.. as if I start crying.. I will be hard to stop LOL..
After reach the groom house, only then I know, the couple will not be staying at there.. they both bought a new house not far from school.. =_= wow.. bought..a..house..
They are both very lucky. Raised by parents which can say has already help putting their journey of life half in tarred. not much bumps and holes.
If to compare to me and my other half. Well, we are more pity.
Groom's mum and dad still alive. Both working. Mum is Kanebo consultant!!! I just knew. No wonder she looks hot.. LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL and ..no wonder all her kids (including the groom) has smooth fair silky face (even they are all boys) .. Yes, groom has no sister. 3 siblings and all boys.
Bride is Clarins supporter but.. her face is still far to compare to her husband's face. I think it's time for her to change to Kanebo :P Kanebo is very pricey too.. they have this Lip Freshener. I need to get one if I have extra cash this month LOL .. Allllllrighhtttttttt... enough. this is out of the topic. LoL
So, after tea ceremony at groom's house, the couple need to head to their own house. I didn't follow, as I don't drive and the person who drove me need to go back to work soon. So... yeah, we just head back home.
That's all the story for today.. What I don't expect is, why they bought a new house.. why can't they go live in bride's house after all her dad is all by herself. Her dad looks much older after her mum died. When we reach her home, her dad was in the kitchen. So we went in and say hello. He start mumbling saying " my daughter getting married and now I have to make my own tea to drink in the morning" You know how I felt? I felt helpless.. I don't know what to say else to this old man. How should I comfort him? We both act deaf and walked away LOLL..
What's going to happened when I got married? Oh well, my barbarian brother should be still sticking his ass around here in my mum's house. Thick face people who like to bluff how he wanted to move outside which in the end he still around at the same nest. That's my brother.
But I will need to get back home everyday to check on her. Hmm... different people has different path. I should never feel stress and pressure and should never compare. Or I will get crazy one day.
